Ariana Grande and Ricky Alvarez have appeared together in affectionate moments lately, but a brief exchange at the New York City Marathon has put their relationship under a different kind of scrutiny. Fans saw Grande managing a clipboard and a drink while Alvarez stood nearby. A small gesture became a referendum on his manners—and, for some viewers, on the couple itself.
Grande has recently finished her “Eternal Sunshine” tour and stepped back from performing. The marathon appearance offered a rare public glimpse of the singer during that pause. What the clip shows is limited; what people read into it is another matter.
A Marathon Note Became a Viral Moment

Grande and Alvarez were watching the marathon from the sidelines in Manhattan when a digital creator behind the project “Ella’s Envelope” approached them. The creator asked whether they’d write a message for runners. Grande readily took the clipboard and pen, writing “You did it!” with small hearts and signing the note “Ari + Ricky,” according to Entertainment Weekly.
The message was later given to a runner, who didn’t initially know the pop star had written it. It’s a sweet encounter on its face. Then the video began circulating, and attention shifted from the encouragement to Alvarez’s behavior.
Fans Focus on What Alvarez Didn’t Do
The clip, posted on Instagram, shows Grande writing while holding her drink. Viewers criticized Alvarez for not taking the drink or helping with the clipboard; some also read his expression as disengaged. Those are interpretations of a short public video, and the footage alone can’t explain what was happening between them.
Still, the comments turned pointed quickly. “Eww, he gave me the ick in this whole interaction. I hope I’m wrong,” one person wrote. Another mocked him for leaving Grande to manage the drink herself: “And way to go, Ricky, for not grabbing the drink and holding it for Ariana Grande while she was writing.” A third commenter put the reaction more bluntly: “Imagine being Ariana Grande and having that guy as your partner.”
A Different Snapshot From Grande’s Tour Sendoff
That marathon clip sits alongside a warmer image Grande shared weeks earlier, as she closed the “Eternal Sunshine” tour at London’s O2 Arena. Her farewell video mixed rehearsal footage, energetic performances, and interviews with fans. In one black-and-white moment, she appeared to pause in an empty arena and lean from the stage to kiss Alvarez, her photographer boyfriend.
As The Blast reported, Grande paired the video with a message about what the tour had meant to her: “This experience has meant more to me than words can possibly say … ‘I love you’ doesn’t begin to cover it. Thank you. From the bottom of my heart. Yours always, Ariana.” The two clips offer very different glimpses of the couple; neither, on its own, says much about a relationship beyond the moment captured.
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Time away could give Grande and Alvarez room to reconnect

The clearest sign that Ariana Grande and Ricky Alvarez may be taking their relationship seriously is a small one: matching words on their collarbones. The pair appeared to mark a major moment together with matching tattoos, after making their relationship public on social media.
Fans spotted “I do love you” inked on Grande during her tour. Alvarez reportedly has the same phrase in the same place. The tattoos suggest a shared gesture, though they don’t tell us much about the couple’s private plans.
Her hiatus may mean more time together

Grande has said she plans to step back from public life after facing intense commentary about her appearance. Reports say she expects to spend that time with family, close friends and Alvarez, rather than entering a treatment facility, as some rumors suggested.
That break could give the couple something their recent schedules haven’t: time together without work dictating the calendar. Insiders say Grande’s demanding workload kept them apart more than either wanted, and that they hope to make up for it. “She’s looking forward to having more freedom in her day and being able to make plans without constantly working around such a demanding schedule,” an insider told The Blast.
Here’s the thing: a matching tattoo makes for a striking romantic signal, but the more meaningful change may be practical. If Grande’s hiatus gives her the time and freedom she says she wants, it could let the relationship develop away from the demands of touring and public attention. The reports don’t explain how long that quieter stretch will last, or what comes next.